Entitled neighbor demands homeowners stop letting their dogs out, despite having a fully fenced yard, homeowners refuse, then ignore neighbor's texts altogether: ‘That’s my prerogative'

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Bar Mor Hazut • Senior Editor
Jan 7, 2026 9:00 AM EST

Who let their dogs out?

Many people dream and aspire to own a nice, private house in a quiet neighborhood, surrounded by kind neighbors and friendly families. It might be a bit cliché, but wanting to experience that serene dream is nothing to be ashamed of. Owning a house, starting a family, and working in a job you enjoy are some of the most basic foundations for a happy life, but they are also great and practical aspirations that might seem tangible for even the most average person.

Imagine you have achieved part of that dream–you bought a picket-fenced house in a nice neighborhood, and you moved there with your loving partner and your sweet dogs. So far, so good, right?

Well, the thing that no one tells you about this dream is how rare it actually is to find a quiet neighborhood with kind neighbors; it might be even more challenging than saving the money to buy the actual house. Neighbors are unpredictable, and you can never know who you might end up living next to for the rest of your 'dream' life. They could be the nicest people in the world, but they could also be the most entitled. The only way to find out is by living right next to them.

When the homeowners in the story below moved into their place, they were prepared to live in their dreams. Here was a wonderful space, with a large fenced yard for their dogs, a place to have friends over, invest in their hobbies, and so on. What they see coming is how their next-door neighbors would complain about every single move they make inside their dream home.

Text after text, these neighbors complained about everything–claiming the homeowners were talking too loudly, playing music, and letting their dogs out into their fenced yard. These neighbors had problems with it all. It almost felt like, even though it was a dream house, these neighbors were not letting anyone actually live there.

At some point, the demands became too much to deal with, and the homeowners decided to stand for their rights and for the freedom to live however they wished. 

Would the neighbors accept that? Keep scrolling to read the full story to find out. After that, check out this story of how a company lost millions by taking away employees' incentives.

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  • Should I tell my neighbor directly that I'll be ignoring her texts moving forward?

    Bought a house with a large fenced yard because we value our space, hobbies, having friends over, allowing our pets to run etc.
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  • It's a wonderful space. From the get go our next door neighbor has been very high maintenance.
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  • It started over the summer with text complaints about "talking loudly" at 10pm on the weekend- my husband and I sitting on our back porch chatting.
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  • Then music complaints in the middle of the day. Admittedly we sometimes play loud music inside, but I'm not going to not do that in my home.
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  • We are thoughtful of the time, we're not bumping it at 2am. Then complaints about our dogs barking at 4am- it wasn't our dogs.
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  • It was dogs across the street. She refused to believe this and insisted we slept through our dogs barking loudly- they sleep in our room.
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  • Then requests that we keep our dogs inside when she had guests over- the dogs do bark when people come and go but for 30 seconds max.
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  • I again refused, its our fenced yard so if we want to have our dogs out there during the day that's my prerogative- right?
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  • I would understand if they were barking non stop or jumping at the fence but they don't do that.
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  • Finally the last few days I've been painting our walls, and the dogs have been out most of the day.
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  • Again- fully fenced yard, cared for dogs, it's 55 degrees and sunny, everyone is happy. She's repeatedly texted me that I should bring the dogs in because she "sees them." That's the reason.
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  • They barked for about 30 seconds at a passerby and she texts "do you hear your dog's barking?" My question is- should I tell her planely and clearly that I'm no longer going to be reading or responding to her messages, or should I just silently ignore her?
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  • I've tried to be a good neighbor and explain myself to her, but I'm totally over it by now.
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  • It's relevant that our physical homes are at minimum 50 feet away from each other and the fence line is still at least 20 feet from her home.
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  • We're not even that close! Edit: I love how controversial this one got- thanks all for their input.
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  • I think this highlights a bit of a variance in viewing neighborhood living. I really expect to hear things. like barking dogs, kids screaming and playing, people living their lives, talking, band practice, cars driving, music, even the occasional weekend party.
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  • I think those things are normal, acceptable parts of neighborhood living. I also respect that some people don't, but I also feel that if that's the case you may need to curate your life in a particular way.
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  • Maybe an HOA or a town with strict ordinances. I understand why some people find that appealing.
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  • But I do not, so I bought a large lot just barely outside of city limits (we still have county ordinances!) I don't think I'm a bad neighbor and never had complaints from previous neighbors (in a much closer and packed in environment, no less.) Anyhow.
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  • I'm gonna ignore her. Maybe I'll report back with how things go later this year considering we're planning to get chickens in the spring and have a baby coming in mid summer :) Ok last edit- her complaint about music was not like bumping edm from my house, it was my husband and (funny enough) another neighbor playing acoustic (guitar, banjo, mandolin) in the back yard.
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  • We play music in the house but I don't think she can't hear it and she's never mentioned it- i mentioned it in my post as like a yes i do that in my home but it feels reasonable to me thing but i get that that was unclear.
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  • Houses are newer, well insulated. When i say I've tried to be a good neighbor i mean that We've responded to her previous complaints with understanding and by moving as far away from her home to chat/ play when outside- even during the day.
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  • I think more than anything her tone and meaness and now the weirdness about my dogs existing outside in the yard designed for them had really been the last straw for me.
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